Finding a Mistress
Seeking advice on the best way for a newbie to find his Mistress.
SexyKisses - I would suggest finding a munch group or bdsm group in your area and joining..A munch is a meeting of like minded people that meet in a "vanilla setting" such as a restaurant..They get together and chat about the lifestyle.. Hope this helps..
Smile2Cu - SexyKisses has excellent advice. Most areas have a local Munch group which meets regularly. They tend to be really nice folks, and very welcoming. Usually they meet at a local bar or restaurant.
OK, it's a little disconcerting to go into a bar and ask a group of strangers, "Excuse me, is this a Munch group?" But if they're not they won't know what you're talking about, so no harm is done, and usually they're the only substantial group meeting in the bar.
MSPLZZ - For a newbie, the best way is to find a local bdsm group as suggested. When you find out who the host/ess is email them and tell them you are new, they usually with make sure you are welcomed. Go with an open mind about meeting new lifestyle people and not with the idea that your Mistress will be there. Make new friends and network and learn about the lifestyle. Education and safety is paramount. What is that old saying...."when the student is ready, the teacher will appear" ?
Glamapus - Twice I've been a Mistress 'n enjoyed every second of it all 
Dommeandslave - I finally found a mistress. she makes me do things. she uses a strap on on me. she makes me suck on her dildos, she says she is going to make me suck a real cock. she spanks me and whips me. she makes me do whatever she wants.